How would you like to tie the knot? is it through love or arrange? Which one will last long and better? My theory is if you love some one and then marry her, after a while there will be no love anymore because its different, when you were in love then when that same person is your wife or husband and i think there will be lots of expectation from the both side.When two people are in love they like every things about each other. But it will be completely different when you are married and living under one roof.If that marriage happen through arrange then there will be less expectation. Because you get to know each other after marriage. But then it could be too late that by the time you know about that person. because you are already married to that person. but in love marriage you've a chance to make a decision before you marry.so that what i think, tell me about your view about this matter.

peter - i think being single all your life is the way to go!! are you with me?? ;)
haha!! :D

Nails
You are still young to think about marrige.

blue_moon - are you scared that i'll be single forever?? ;)
LOL!! :D

don't worry, I am married.

blue_moon - then we really need to talk!! :D
so tell us - what are the benefits of a married life?? ;)

Alot
I get married at the age of 28 and I feel like the life after marrige is much more better than before.
Can't say in words!

blue_moon - i see!! so, are you trying to say that there are no cons after getting married?? ;)
haha!!

There may be but till now it is.

Nails I'm with you all the way. I don't think I'm ever going to get married. And its not that I'm too young for it. I just dont like the idea of being "tied down" in one place. I'd rather go work voluntary for the UN and travel all around the world and see all that it has to offer before I die.
As for the benefits of a married life:)..lol all that comes to my mind are jokes - no offence to married people whatsoever.
Anyways, just a personal opinion.
Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one.:)
Peace

I like to balance out by going for lovearrange.

love and arrange both should work great !!!

Ill say love and arrange it.

Sometimes arrange marriage is good but what if you're not in love with a person you will marry? can you take it? a lot of arrange marriage now a days is not working out. what if after a couple of years, you will fall in love with somebody else and the feelings you have for that person is totally different? What you gonna do? But you have to make your own choices, either arrange or not, it all depends on you. You have to follow what your heart dictates and whatever makes you happy. As long as your doing the right thing. we only have one life to live in this world, make sure that the person you will choose is the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, a person you wanna grow old with.