This is not your Naturalization (is when you apply to be citizen after 3/5 yrs of you becoming LPR). As far as i know, you cant file for waiver if your US spouse leave you in the middle of your immigration process. In order to qualify for a waiver programme, you need to show that you're abused by you're US Spouse. You need to file for LPR two years minus 90 days ( 21 months) from the date you become conditional resident. Failing to file LPR during that 90 days frame will make you deportable.
So, my suggestion is to hang with her till to the date you'r LPR is approved. Good Luck..

Suduceme,

I like your advice. Tara usle maile pakako khana pani khanna, usko samaya pachi bathroom janu parcha, kitchen pani usko samaya bahek use garnu parcha. Mero ahile samma tax file ko proof cha, joint account cha, budi life insurance ko beneficiary cha, vision plan cha etc. Tara I-751 file garda mathika proof ra usko signature bhaye pugcha hoina? J ma pani usko kura nai mathi huncha. K garne? Ma ta usko apartment ma jabarjasti baseko justo bhako cha.

You don't even have one nice thing to say ab't her and you're already ASKING so many questions on how to SECURE your Green Card through her.  You sound selfish.

Of course, she will act like that. She has the upper hand in this kind of situations. And we don't know what Trigger her TO Behave like this  after all these months. 

And the problems you've told us is normal. Now it seems its too late. When a woman wants a space, she wants it and she means it.

YOU DIDN'T ASK US HOW TO ACT WITH HER TO BE NORMAL AGAIN,  YOU ASKED US HOW TO SECURE YOUR GREEN CARD.

No wonder what she went through to act like this.

Sexy in sari,

Tapai ko kura sanga ma 100% sahamat chu. Tara usko advice le maile bihe gareko. Talai ramro huncha bhanyo. I acknoledge that. Pachi pachi usko family important, maile kindeko saman man naparne, aja bhat (rice) ta third world ko manche le khancha re. La bhannus na ta kasari uslai khusi rakhna sakchu?

The biggest DREAM of a woman is to get married  like in a FAIRY TALES. And she SACRIFICED her biggest dream for your better future.

And when she asked you for small stuffs that she likes to do on her daily life, you made a MOUNTAIN out of it. So sad.

Mitra, still you'v a chance. BUT you need to change your ATTITUDE towards her.

Good luck!



___________  Somewhere in the sky..."MURKHA manab, I gave you Amerika, Amerikan girl, Amerikan dream but you can't keep it. And went on Sajha get help with those other Murkha manabs...I will give you phir saay nepali dream. ha ha ha.."....

@ Sexy in sari : You can't be so judgmental towards him and their ongoing relationship, if you don't know them personally. Like dindhuki said "Edi usle aru sanga date gari bhane mero galti huncha ra" How a girl who he is married to can date some other guy? Is he justified?

It's obvious that their relationship is not going so strong and when relationship tends to break or people get divorce they tend to think of their own personal interest and dindhuki is merely doing the same - securing the most he can from the failing relationship in his case, Greencard. If you cannot give a constructive answer, don't give at all.

@dindhuki: If you have entered marriage in a good faith, don't worry too much.

1) Edi ma move bhaye bhane maile waiver file garna sakchu?

No you can't. Need to provide USCIS tons of evidence that you entered marriage in a good faith and not for immigration purpose. Simply having bills together doesn't mean you have a legitimate marriage.

2) Ki u sangai jaso taso basne?

Best option is to try to make up the marriage/ try marriage counseling, etc.

3) Edi usle aru sanga date gari bhane mero galti huncha ra, conditional marriage ma?

It is not your fault as you cannot have a control over someone's life. Unfortunately she's dating someone else, wont be a ground for your I751 approval. You need to find a GOOD lawyer to deal with this issues.

मित्र, केहि पाउन को लागि केहि गुमाउन पर्छा जस्तो लाउच्चा मोलाई त !!!

Rather thn pondering your time here @ Sajha, spend time with her, take out & spend nice times, beg for possible excuses & try to make her happy. try to find what made her turn off suddenly & create  situations like you had @ very begining with her...Think abt it, Jealousy wont work, neither try taking revenge. you were able to lure her earlier, why cant you at this time? you the MAN, Be a MAN & act Like a MAN, wotever it takes, bud...prolly buying red roses every night when you come back from home, some red sparkling red wine, n ohh yea, how abt some good ass Viagra ?    Hang in there like that for 1 yrs & 9 month & thn apply to remove your conditions on GC. Once that taken care, if you wanna be a good guy, let her GO ...if you wanna be a bad guy, take her to a long ride & drop her @ middle of highway 69

This is a very serious issue!!!!!  This can create you a LOT of troubles in near future. From my understanding if you guys file for a divorce, your application will be abandonded and you will receive a deportation letter. Even motion to reopen the file will be worthless after your removeable notice.  Unless she is abusive or she cheats on you, it's not quite possible for you to avoid deportation. Also in those case you need to have a REAL SOLID proof. Its not very easy. 

I don't know how was your relation with her prior to the marriage, but if she had initiated for the marriage, then surely she had loved you once or atleast she was ur well wisher. I think you should work on earing her respect for you. DO NOT act desperate and Do NOT let her find out you will going to face ramification if she decides to leave you.

Take her out and ask her , what exactly went wrong? What did you missed for not meeting her expectation? Hopefully she will talk you about the issue and things will workout for both you.

You need to act now...

Somebody wise said it..."Better bend than Break"

Goodluck !!!

Thanks for lots of advice. I can see so many good people in this site.

 Is she an American (white girl) or a Nepali American, if I may ask...

She is an American girl, born and grew up here not a naturalized citizen.