Why do most of the Nepalese in US are so selfish?? Do selfish people comes to Us or they become selfish after coming here???

Do you guys often hear this from Nepalese, “म लाई त धेरै हरुको संगत गर्न मान लाग्दैन नेपाली को प्रोग्राम म जान मान लाग्दैन, त्यहाँ खाली कुरा काट्चन् , नेपाली हरु खुत्ता तानछन, मेरो काममा, Neighborhood मा नेपालीहरु नै छैन आनन्द छ"

I often hear this from women, especially from middle-aged women who were dumb azz 2-3 years ago when they first got here with DV. They didn't have job, didn't know how to drive, didn't know any english at all. They did ask/call every single Nepalese to get any kinda assistanc Now they have job (dhoti ko restaurant or grocery store, have 12 yrs old corolla can speak Hinglish. Now they don’t like Nepalese and trying to stay away from ‘em.

I think this thread starter Chetrini is the same kinda person; he/she thinks most of all Nepalese are selfish, something wrong with him/her.

“When in Rome, do as the Romans do”

Chetrini,
khai kasai ko aas nagara and baru aaru haru lai help chaiyo bhane help gara and you will find the world is not selfish but if you dont do that than everyone in this world is selfish even your boy/girlfren.. mom/dad.. bro/sis..
So, do not expect much from people.. Expect less you will b less disappointed

My 3rd cent: DON'T DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WOULD NOT WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU. It's an insight for low expectation and following frustations.

Jai Hosh!

"Why do Nepalis are so selfish?"
Really? Why the "do" ?

The
question that puzzles me is why do a countless number of Nepalis, even
here in the US have such pathetic english. All Indians, Pakistanis,
Bangladeshis and Sri Lankans that I have spoken to seem to have great
control over grammar and punctuation.

i have posted this thread to share the experience wid all te ppl not asked to judge my english???

ya u r right there are varied groups of people in this country...some are selfish by nature some are made selfish by the circumstances and some are selfish to show others i am selfish too ...personally telling the person who doesn't walk by my ideology i just give dammm to him coz ...i know i am never wrong...i am ready to give them my mind but in the same time if they try to become over smart then about me ....u know what i say ... i don't know why you raised this topic ...but u sound like kinda angry with some sort of Nepalese ....cool down you will also feel the same way after 2 years .....i was like you long time ago ...

raju161

u r absolutely rite.im angry wid some nepalese who r showin their attitude......its being hard to stand but still im tryin...........moreova lets c wat happens??/

and bindu don't worry ....it will be ok just chill the world is filled with flat and round you will learn more about life gradually and finally time will come when you give dammmm to all these stuffs

don't give the example of prashanta tamang please. he is indian first then nepalese...............

It depends on experience ....If you aspect a lot from a person then, you are being selfish in the sense that  u are aspecting others to help you....but USA.....land of oppurtunities......u gotta be selfish in some way.....Everybody has to do their job ...make living ...what do you aspect them to do....I am satisfied with nepalease in united states ...but some natives or caucaisn over here are kinda racists who will treat u different from what u have expected. I hear kind of dominating voice trying to say u guys are in my country and u guys are taking our oppurtunities. Based on my experience, hai.

I am selfish.

/eats cake.

Driver what the heck u are trying to say????

That everyone is selfish, and I'm not gonna share my cake with anyone ;)

"One of the greatest diseases is to be nobody to anybody" - Mother Teresa

Let's not generalize.. and let's scrutinize in a postive manner. 

Other's do what they do .. you do what you think you should do ... 

 

 

SLEEPLESS you are one loggerheaded bum. I am sorry to throw such unkind words at you but you leave me no choice my friend. I dont think you had to come out charging  like that making such an issue of grammatical mistakes. Grow up

If they want to be selfish, they can be! What difference does it make? Don't deal with them if you don't like it!!

Real story...

When I was in OC......I heard this quote--"The more I meet the peoples, the more I love my cat"....I shared it with a Dishwasher working with me in cafe.......he said---" Then you are meeting wrong peoples"

Lol truthspeaker!!

That dishwasher is a wise man :D i could learn quite a bit frm him!

Yes! If you find ureself unhappy with the people u meet, u ARE indeed meeting the wrong ppl :D

kudos.

DD

i think it all comes down to the environment and genes factor.