nahola they will dominate u n no charm.....

Pandeyji hajur ko kura kunai kunai ramro kunai kura chai wtf bhannu parne jasto. K boleko hola. Keti sanga testari bolne ho ra? Tait. By the way what's wrong with marrying somebody who is few years older than you? Keti Sano age ko and kta thulo age ko is okay with you. And Keti few years older than the guy is not okay with you? Oh wait would you rather marry a girl who is 10 years younger than you and act so immature. A friend of mine was married to this guy who was 10 years older than her. She was still in high school and she wanted the guy to dress like the boys her age. The guy on the other hand was so insecure because he thought she was cheating on him with guys her age. So would you rather marry someone just because they are younger than you. Or would you marry someone who's a few years older than you but is super nice to you and treats you with respect, doesn't cheat on you.


@sojho_bahun if I were you, I'd marry her as long as she's loyal to you and respects you and your family, a good individual and is drama free.

ok as a respect to divine gal n wegalz took out my comments ....... enjoy ur day!!

Logan, 

personal opinion:

1. Three month of remote talks and relation, in majority of cases probably are not real relationships but more like affection.
2. If it’s arrange marriages and you are not sure about your relationship, don’t compromise, you will regret later and might also lead to unhappy relation in long run.
3. Think carefully about her notion of not being able to have babies , it may not look like big deal early on , but it could become major issue as time passes. Keep in mind even though many people don’t like to deal with kids,99.9 percent of people end-up having kids. There is strong reason behind it . But at the same time fertility treatments are fairly advance now. So think about it carefully. What is problem ? If it’s treatable if you want to have baby later on. If not are both of you 100 % sure about it. In general women will have more troll of not having babies , eventually, and you have guts to support her through that.
4. Other then that , women fertility problems as age passes , probably 3/4 years difference is not a big deal. But if you are planning to have babies , you don’t much time to chill. After 35 risk of having first baby, significantly goes up for women.
5. Other thing to consider with women’s age is that , women are generally more mature then men. So women of 33 will be much mature in thought , risk taking and fun activities compared to men of 29. This might result in difference in opinion and personality . This is probably most important reason , men has been marrying little younger women in many culture and for generations.

With all this in mind you can probably make informed decision.

100% agreed with ☝️.

Agree with everything except Meraj’s number 5. And great job explaining so well.

But I have seen several cases of women 1 to 5 years older living happily (with occasional normal spousal squabbles) with their husbands. Maybe men may have been marrying younger women in many cultures but now with seismic changes in attitudes that does not mean it has to be that way anymore.

Most of the time any topic like this has/had ended with differently and sometime the creator will end up as a kick bag. Happy to see more positive input then last similar post. I do remember a lady was trying to gather some date for her PHD, most of the comment were horrible and he must have regretted on her post.
If someone has entered Sajha with a trolling mentality you can not fix them and not worth of trying.

Thank you Meraj for your valuable insight.

"You can change white to any other color, some other color may change to different color but BLACK can not be change or mold.
Please do not try to change any person with BLACK colored mentality."

People like Logan are very amusing to me hahaha .....

for example ..... if i had changed my dp from black looking Krurr Singh to Johnny Depp or some santa mahatma he would think im the nicest guy around haha......

they are so fast to judge otehrs (with their stereotypes) and if someone does same to them they will be the one to get upset first ...... this world is amazing :)

happy friyay yall!!!