I am a married man but I have been in relation with a girl for nearly 2 years and now i left her bcoz i am gonna have a baby soon. i dont understand myself i love my wife a lot but in another hand i love this girl too and we go on very well feels like i have spent the most exciting life with her in these 2 years.i share most with her than my wife doesnt mean that i dont love my wife. i just dont understand wot was happening to me but now i broke off with her just bcoz she said something nasty about my unborn baby. did i do right? well i think so bcoz this relation wasn't gonna work for long we both knew that.i am really missing her though i have said lots of nasty thing saying i will never see her again. What should i do.........HELP.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Before we take this farther ahead, should we all not ask
Mabf, what 'Mabf' stands for?

At the first glance, 'Mabf' looks like 'My Boyfriend'.
With that, I am now confused where Mabf is a man or a woman and what his sexual orientation is.

If I am guessing wrong, could you please clarify what your login name mean?
:)

Messages seem a bit womanish but MABF could stand for anything else too right. ;D

and doesn't the title sound like PATI PATNI OR WOH? hahahaha...

seems like i'm wasting my already depreciated 2 freaking cents for a mockery thread. :P

am outta here....before i start hitting myself ;-)

LOLOL Loote!
yeah you are right,PATI PATNI OR WOH?

So much time wasted.

This is the perfect example of Collateral Damage (strictly TIMEwise)

Loote!
"depreciated two cents"?
Uh Huh?
Buy a coffee maker instead of buying a Rs 200+/cup Starbucks every morning to work.
;p

My time wasn't wasted, it was pretty foony. ;]

seems like everybody getting confuse now....well i am in london....i am a guy.....MABF is a computer login to my work computer well the full login is MABF21ia...this is my first posting in sajha so dont know wot to keep as log in name thought to use this...i am glad that everyone took lots of intrest well saying about "PATI PATNI OR WOH" yes that relates to the topic coz it is.....i am trying to sort things out....please dont take things back after giving it.....feeling bad as u all start to think i am faking dont know wot to say more its all right i have get the general views from u all and i am happy for that and thanks to all and sajha too......i am gonna be with my wife and my baby. thats the answer to u all.....

Jai Nepal
Nick man paryo.
mabf: metric attended but failed

Wot? lol. ;O

mabf,

good job! that's the spirit! good on you my boy :P

hyde,

sure will from tomorrow. but what about lunch? is there anything called "lunch-maker" or tying the knot is the last and only resort? :D

hey mabf,
i kinda took a look at all the things u had to say n all the things that ppl had to say about u n ur situation.....i am not an expert in this matter but if u go according to me n if u trust this lady......
dont tell ur wife anything about any of this stuff. but then this is IF u TRUST this lady with ur deepest n darkest secret of ur life......
i mean u obviously love ur wife....u r a Fu**ed up guy....no comments on that...u already messed up ur life real bad....not only urs..but think about ur wife n think bout that unborn baby.....they r gonna have to suffer BCOZ of ur freakin "love"......
the best thing to do so as to make it up to ur wife...i.e, if u can make up for the blunder that u already made..which i highly doubt....but the closest thing would b to dedicate ur life to ur family..to ur wife n kid.....
tellin her the truth will jus make things worse....n at time like this when shes pregnant ..believe me she does not need this shit......
its better to keep quiet n live ur life n keep ur family happy....
but this option is only if u think u can do it.....only if u can dedicate ur life to ur wife n forget each n every thing about ur past....that way u n ur family can live a nice life.....
its gonna b hard on ur part if u r true but then u get wot u do.........
hope this helped u .....
aite peace
jai nepal