Can a guy and a gal ever be best friends in reality? Wot's your take on this?
After having come across several situations, today I'm thinking that a guy and a gal can't be best friends. For a gal, it's so easy to be misinterpreted and misconstrued. Often her actions can be taken as suggestive. And one fine day, all of a sudden your so called "good" or "best" guy friend may end up proposing you and you don't know how to handle the situation at all....
As I was growing up, I used to think why can't a gal and a guy be best friends? After all its all a matter of understanding and being open minded. But now, I don't think the same anymore......wor's ur take on this?

yes but just for sex

hmm....really?

Well if you are being specific on "Best" in friends, i have nothing to say coz i never had a best friend who are girls. But otherwise in general, a boy can have a good friendship with a girl i guess. I have. I am not sure, does this answer your question?? Probably not? I suck at answering questions.

Remember! what happened of them...?

No and never

A guy and girl can never be best friends in terms of spiritual friendship. There will be sexual relationship in that friendship, so if they are in love it's cool but if they are just friends they are cheating to their beloved ones. However its good to have best friends, For a guy, u enjoy having sex with girl u r not marrying and if u r a girl then u enjoy having sex with a guy and sharing other things that u cannot share with ur bf. This happens.

NO as long as you are normal.

I'D say YES ..OFCOURSE

So Girl_interreupted, lemme ask u something here....
so wot if the best friend/ good friend guy ends up proposing u? wouldn't the scneario be awkward after then...?

I seriously doubt that we can be friends. Remember "When Harry Met Sally". Also, what do you do when you have an opposite sex sitting next to you and your have strong urges. I bet the monkey in you makes you wanna do it.

Yes, a guy and a girl can be best friends!

Gahugoro, that was fast. How you do dat?? Kinda closed this chapter. Good night!!!!

I have a pretty serious hunch that the concept of Kuch Kuch Hota Hain(1998) was derived from the movie My Best Friend's Wedding (1997). I acknowledge that the story-lines are completely different. Anyways, both deal with deep friendship between hormone-laden male and female counterparts.

from MBFW
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from KKHH..
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Bottomline:
When hormones from opposite-sex hormones communicate, the bodies give in..

hahaha ... GI its easier said than done sweet heart .. its easier said than done ...

Oh and my take ?

a dude and a dudette cannot be best friends unless the dude is gay ...
seriously ~~~

Why not? The friendship is also a kind of love. If there is belief, safety, respect, responsibility and understanding in between two friends (girl and boy), of course they can be ‘GOOD & BEST ‘friend for ever. BTW, I have some …I feel lucky myself to be their friend. When we’re together, it is really auspicious moment for us.
my two cent....

guys are stupid, girls are confusing...

so nope...

and you're stupid and confusing both.

Gahugoro,
thanks for that harry met sally clip ...

I really dig Harry's opinion in that clip, so yeah the friendship between a guy and a girl is doomed ...lol ...

heres the transcript of that conversation,
i find it "makes me laugh my guts off" funny :)

Sally: We are just going to be friends, OK?
Harry: Great, friends. It's the best thing...You realize, of course, that we can never be friends.
Sally: Why not?
Harry: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape, or form - is that men and women can't be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry: No, you don't.
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: No, you don't.
Sally: Yes, I do.
Harry: You only think you do.
Sally: You're saying I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry: No, what I'm saying is they all want to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do too.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive.
Harry: No, you pretty much want to nail them, too.
Sally: What if they don't want to have sex with you?
Harry: Doesn't matter, because the sex thing is already out there, so the friendship is ultimately doomed, and that is the end of the story.