k so, this random guy came up to me and asked my age and then he asked "are you sexually active" and after he asked if i could be his girlfriend? isnt that obvious that he asked me out for just physical relationship. i mean its just stupid to ask someone such personal thing randomly, i dont think you'd ever find a girlfriend that way! guys really dont know how to approach girls and those that do are only funny and never romantic! >:( are all single guys like that? how would you start a a conversation with a girl?

:\ do you guys like speak out if you really like someone? or what do you do when you like someone? wait for the girl to ask you out??

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try me

what?
shy guy shy guy

It depends Sawty, if I want just that then i straight go to the point. but if i want a longer relation, i approach cautiously.

wait? if you start waiting till she comes to you, somebody else might woo her, so...

i thought u were looking for single who is ready to mingle right ?

ooooo point noted. :O

hmmmmm :D

haina ashanti kaha kt lai parkhine.hamro samaj ma kt lai parkhiyo bhane ta jugau juggg lagcha.
baru bistarai bistarai kura gardai gayo..mannparako cha bhane hint dindai gayo..antim ma kei sip nalagne gari prastab rakhyo.
yes bhanyo bhane thikai cha yahoo hola tyo time tara kasari react garne kati lai thaha ni hunna.
tara no bhanyo bhane kina no bhaneko bhanlan kati le..ta kati le ok no ta no..ta matra chainas kt bhanera janchan.
kta le sodhyo thikai ta cha. usle k sodhnu parne nasakeko ho ki. kahile kahi mann ma k huncha mukh bata k aucha. duita ma euta ta pakkai hunu parcha. ki ta he loves u ki ta he is flirting with u.
aba yonsambandha ko kura ta garihalchan ni. maya garda afno premika sanga pani yedi biha bhako cha bhane afno shrimati sanga pani. aba usle sodhne dhanga namileko pani huna sakcha..ki ta sidhai tei chaheko pani huna sakcha.
50/50
jai nepal

bahunketo bro, either u write in english or in devnagiri nepali

its hard to read u know

just wondering

hey shawty,

1) just smack the guy if it is brutally offensive and uncalled for.

2) on another note, did you intend to give him the impression that you are sexually desirous ? :P...don't wear too skimpy clothes dear there is a beast world out there ! OR at least be prepared for minor assaults at your expense. BUT, don't you ever get bogged down! there are good men out there as well.

3) on a serious note, i don't fall sort of giving plaudits to open-minded and transparent people. decency apart, at least they sound what they have in mind - better than those hypocrites who start with lovey dovey conversations with lots of promises and ultimately end up dumping girls soon after they're done. better to know their actual intentions in advance ni haina?

just my thoughts hai!

LooTe

LOL OKAY THERE, NO.2 WAS GAY, now i wudnt wear such clothes when its -20 C outside! :\ anyways and no matter what its just crazy to ask such a personal question so randomly, you gotta start with some nice talks okay. cuz if you just show your "actual intention in advance" that way, then ciao baby, ur just a pervert and nothin.

and also, was it in a club or bar, or was it in the university? or was it at work place? that matters too. its no wrong if it happened in a bar at 2am.

rofl im not stupid okay, just outside a store when its freezing and u cant even move ur lips :\ im not taking that "issue" seriously. its that how do majority of you approach girls?

Tell such a juvenile Romeo to actually grow up OR suggest him to work on his pick-up lines.

If you happen to look like you are in your teens, then he should have asked if you are over 18 (or something that infers a question reggarding the min age for consensual sex in the State where the incident occured).

BTW, that crooked smile :/ of yours looks better on you than on your likely idol Shah Rukh Khan.
;P

hey howd u know i like sharukh khan and how dare you compare my looks with his looks, hes got manly looks and i dont! :D

and hey thanks for the compliment, oh even i am in love with my crooked smile, mirror has been like computer and tv for me eh!

I dont know. I usually dont approach girl. I am very shy. girls have to take the initiatives.

hahahaha..i knew it was coming :P

az,
my last post, in fact all my posts in sajha are intended to be directed to general public. that's how i approached in answering your question. by no means, i am trying to imply that you wear sexy clothes hahaha :P so please, don't get me wrong here. i was trying to analyze your question from as many perspectives as possible.

let me narrate a short incident here hai. there is this close friend of mine. she is not too much of a party animal or a social person so to speak. always focussed at her own stuff - a typical geek one may say. i think it was few years back, she was coming back from a new year party- the only party she attends in a year :D, an inebriated guy happened to come up with few physical advances only to leave her in a state of utter shock.

so the point is, if it can happen to a girl of her nature, it can happen to anyone and especially to those who happen to end up displaying hints of a desire, intentionally/unintentionally. i just wanted to unravel the possibility of that event, which is more likely to happen, when, as copycat pointed out, the ambience and the crowd is such.

as for your other counter-argument about the nature of an approach to a girl is concerned, i do think , its not being decent being direct with an approach and no one will appreciate or welcome it. but, would you not be glad to know what a person actually wanted, in advance, than to get yourself entangled under a false impression, only to leave yourself to repent later on? if a guy is up for a serious friendship, love or companionship, it's pretty obvious that he would come up with a decent proposal. now, if an ill-intended guy came up with the same, chances are, a girl may get deceived. i am for open-mindedness and transparency in a person's part, be it for good or bad cause. tetti bhanya ho :-)

LooTe

how do i approach gals?

1. war paint
2. camouflage suits
3. dart gun with tranquilizer
4. nets

plz add some more..............

Well Swaty! To tell you the truth, whenever I ask nepali girls out they get offended so I just keep my mouth shut these days.