i am hot, 5'4" slim and smiley! people especially my classmates tend to take my openness as something else. this guy came together with me from nepal last year. we ended up living in a same apartment with other 2 girls. one of them is craxy over this guy, but he is probably after me. he tries to spend most of the time talking or sitting, eating, watching tv etc with me rather than with others.
i have never been cold to him and i think this has given him more confidence. he usually grabs my hand, tries to blindfold from behind when no ones at home, and even runs any errands for me.
i was shocked to find my wardobe fiddled around this weekend! some of my clothes were messed up! was he?
i havent kissed him but i hug him every now and then, he embraces me tighter than i which i think he is trying to.....
i dunno......
i mean...should i..... or should i not?
i know its my call but.....i need your serious suggestions! i haven't been in affair until now, especially a serious one!
the problem is that he is 3 years younger than me and in his teens, but he is drop dead handsome 6" 1".

you don't need to ask for suggesstion in this matter. go ahead. but don't forget to share your experience with us later.

How old are you? ... I will give u suggestion after i know ur age..also How old is that guy.
How Long u guys have been USA??

bang her and get pleasure if u can,the feelings chun


ange as time.be dk=lear with her,u donr==t wanna long relation niow.have fun
i m drunk
bye

Don't go with this guy. I am crazy over u!!

hehehehehehehe
i am drunk too

suntalimai yu are beautiful

suntalimai when did u measure him 6"1"? it means u are far ahead than what i think.

hmm

I don't really post in archaic threads, but aren;t you sending all the signals?

If girls can be open and act friendly to guys and realize that they're not trying to attract him, they should also realize that guys will get the signal (or the wrong message) and hit on you and when you turn them down, they'll feel sad.

So girls need to realize that just becuse they're being friendly doesn;t mean they're being totally sincere.

And hugging? Why do you gotta hug all the time? Stop hugging guys. They'll think you're really into them.

Now i'm not sure if you're in the US or Nepal but you have to realize societies are usually conservative. As a smart girl, you should realize being too open isn;t good for the image especially if you overdo it.

And since you claim you're hot, well, i guess that says it all.

thanks a lot guys.

i dont actually incite him, its my attitude, i would say.
i dont want to have sex , especially not with him, may be in future, who knows?

but is there any way to confront him and tell him my emotions? i mean....couldn't we just stay like friends? and besides, my girlfriend thinks i'm a bitch ! she hates me and doesn't talk to me whenever me and him are together. i dont want to lose my girlfriend cuz i am safe with her rather than this hunk!
at the same time, i dont wat to depress him or make him feel bad because he has done so many things for me from searching for apartment, household, breakfasts, school help everything.
aaaaaaaargh! somebody pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease help!

hey santolimai, it is easy. just tell to both your guy and gal you can do everything with him except kiss and sex. anyway, u have a romantic life.
precaution: don't rub hard when you hug him, it may cause a current of 1000 volt....

kehi kaam payena nachahine guff diyo
ani feri suggestion dine pani ustai
three girls living with one guy. oh and the other are supposedly all over him and he hasn't done anything because he supposedly wants you. please .......a guy will bang pretty much anything unless it smells pretty bad

THE ONLY WAY A RELATIONSHIP WORKS:
MONEY, SEX AND A LITTLE FRIENDSHIP, U DON'T NEED ANY LOVE
U WILL ENJOY UR LIFE FULLY.

take life as it comes, increase ur scores ........ if you don't you will miss the missed opportunities. as life goes on, LOVE becomes vague topic. I know it might sound bitter but thats the TRUTH.

Yeah, I too think you should enjoy the moment for now. bang him, scores of time. Think after that what you want to do. even if you don't want a long term relationship then, nobody will lose, both of you will gain something. the guy will be consolated that at least he got to bang you. if you tell him you don't want him right now, he will be sad and do something bad

man a whole buncha bokas in this thread.

Suntalimai- alikati you need to change your behaviour pani. He will automatically retract.

Is he Nepali? Nepali guys are naam matra ko bokas. Sexx bhanepachi they're all a buncha chickens.

aba if he's white or black- they won't hold back because they were brought up in a more open society.

But if he's a Nepali brought up in the US and born here and is a boka like you say- he won't hold back either.

So be careful. And no, don't go around screwin cuz if you do end up with a nice guy in the end, you won't be able to stand up to him and look him straight in the eye because of all the screwin around you did.

I, however, could be wrong about the last statement.

Never ask for others advise on relationships...Its like asking others to size ur shoes...you need to size ur shoes urself......if you can't choose between right and wrong...then, go to jungle and start meditating !

please,do not have sex with him!!!!are u happy with that answer?!...I am pretty sure u are not....U want to have sex with that guy....why do u need our sugestion?!just do it...and the see the result...welcome to life!!!!

It's just funny how so many sajhaites are made murga every day.
This is no doubt a fake story.